In this paper, we study contention resolution schemes for matchings. Given a fractional matching $x$ and a random set $R(x)$ where each edge $e$ appears independently with probability $x_e$, we want to select a matching $M \subseteq R(x)$ such that $\Pr[e \in M \mid e \in R(x)] \geq c$, for $c$ as large as possible. We call such a selection method a $c$-balanced contention resolution scheme. Our main results are (i) an asymptotically (in the limit as $\|x\|_\infty$ goes to 0) optimal $\simeq 0.544$-balanced contention resolution scheme for general matchings, and (ii) a $0.509$-balanced contention resolution scheme for bipartite matchings. To the best of our knowledge, this result establishes for the first time, in any natural relaxation of a combinatorial optimization problem, a separation between (i) offline and random order online contention resolution schemes, and (ii) monotone and non-monotone contention resolution schemes. We also present an application of our scheme to a combinatorial allocation problem, and discuss some open questions related to van der Waerden's conjecture for the permanent of doubly stochastic matrices.