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The Best Masturbation Techniques to Try Without a Sex Toy
Jill Hamilton · 2026-06-26 · via Latest Content - Cosmopolitan

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No Hands!

Illustration of a person lying down wearing colorful accessories and socks.

Natalie Krim

How To Do It: Apply a generous amount of arousal gel or CBD-based lube around your vulva and vaginal opening, then challenge yourself to keep your hands off. Instead, focus on movement and pressure from other sources.

Pros: This technique can help you explore different types of sensation while building anticipation. Plus, it's a great reminder that pleasure doesn't always require direct touch.

Cons: If you're used to getting straight to the point, the slower pace may take some patience.

Switch It Up: Try crossing and uncrossing your legs, grinding against a mattress while lying face-down, or using a piece of furniture to create pressure and friction.

Make It Hotter: “You can squeeze faster, hold longer, and feel the ripple effect of changing up your rhythm and outcome,” suggests Joy Berkheimer, PhD, Chief Sexologist at SXWA. For an extra challenge, add a few Kegel squeezes and see how the changing sensations affect your arousal.

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Clutch Your Pearls

Illustration of a woman in a bikini holding colorful beads.

Natalie Krim

How To Do It: Grab a beaded necklace or strand of pearls and use your fingers to glide the beads over your vulva and other erogenous zones. You can also place the beads inside your underwear and create pressure by massaging from the outside.

Pros: The beads create a totally different sensation than skin-on-skin contact, making this a fun way to mix up your usual routine.

Cons: You may feel slightly ridiculous explaining why your favorite necklace is suddenly part of your masturbation toolkit.

Switch It Up: “Using your fingers, you can sweep the pearls or beads where you wish to tease yourself externally,” says Berkheimer. Experiment with different amounts of pressure, speed, and placement to see what feels best.

Make It Hotter: Into it? Treat yourself to a pair of beaded underwear so you can enjoy the sensation while keeping your hands free.

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The Secret Lover

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Natalie Krim

How To Do It: If your vibrator is dead but you're not quite ready to call it a night, urogynecologist Betsy Greenleaf says some people turn to household itemsfor a little extra stimulation. Popular options include leaning against a washing machine during the spin cycle or repurposing an electric toothbrush or hairbrush handle.

Pros: You get to be resourceful. Plus, you may discover that some very ordinary objects have surprisingly exciting hidden talents.

Cons: One person's creative masturbation hack is another person's awkward ER visit.

Switch It Up: Not feeling particularly MacGyver-esque? Stick to external stimulation and experiment with different types of vibration and pressure.

Make It Hotter: Just choose your "partner" wisely. “Make sure the object you use is clean and retrievable,” says Greenleaf. “I have been witness to many occasions in the emergency room where items have gotten stuck in body orifices.”

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The Wiggle Room

Abstract illustration of a person bending over a colorful striped pattern.

Natalie Krim

How To Do It: Perch on the arm of a sturdy couch or upholstered chair and position your body so your clitoris gets maximum contact. Then, start rocking, grinding, and wiggling until you find a rhythm that works for you.

Pros: According to Good Vibes staff sexologist Carol Queen, PhD, this is basically the solo version of grinding on a partner's thigh. It's great if you enjoy pressure, friction, and a little full-body movement.

Cons: Finding the sweet spot can take some trial and error. Prepare to do a little wiggling before you strike gold.

Switch It Up: Experiment with different fabrics, positions, and levels of pressure to see what feels best. You don't even have to take your clothes off.

Make It Hotter: “Aim the clitoris where it gets optimal stimulation—a little wriggling around will help you figure that out—and start rubbing!” says Queen. Just maybe keep your pants on if you're borrowing someone else's furniture.

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The Faux F*ck

Abstract drawing of a seated woman with colorful circular patterns.

Natalie Krim

How To Do It: Squat over a pillow with one finger inside your vagina while using your other hand to stimulate your clitoris. From there, experiment with thrusting against your finger, tapping the upper vaginal wall, or applying steady pressure to one spot.

Pros: If you're craving the sensation of penetration but don't have a toy handy, this technique offers the best of both worlds: internal and external stimulation.

Cons: Your thighs may start filing complaints if you stay in a squat for too long.

Switch It Up: Not feeling the squat? Try kneeling over the pillow or lying on your back with a pillow under your hips.

Make It Hotter: Take your time. Experiment with different speeds, pressures, and motions rather than rushing toward the finish line. Sometimes the buildup is half the fun.

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The V Stroke

Abstract illustration of a person with floral headpiece and green heart-shaped element, legs bent and open.

Natalie Krim

How To Do It: Apply a little lube to your index and middle fingers, then place one finger on either side of your clitoris. Slide your fingers up and down along each side, adjusting pressure and speed as needed.

Pros: This technique delivers plenty of clitoral stimulation without putting direct pressure on the clitoris itself, which some people find more comfortable.

Cons: If you're someone who prefers intense, direct stimulation, this one may feel a little subtle at first.

Switch It Up: Add a finger just above your vaginal opening and experiment with gentle tapping, rubbing, or pressure while continuing the V stroke.

Make It Hotter: Play with different amounts of pressure and rhythm. You might be surprised how much of a difference a small adjustment can make.

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Mirror Selfie

Abstract illustration of a person with colorful elements and a mirror.

Natalie Krim

How To Do It: Set yourself up in front of a mirror where you can comfortably see your body, then take your time exploring what feels good while watching yourself.

Pros: Sometimes the hottest part isn't the physical sensation—it's seeing yourself as the object of desire. This technique can also help boost body confidence and make you feel more connected to your own pleasure.

Cons: If you're not used to watching yourself, it can feel a little awkward at first.

Switch It Up: Dim the lights, light a candle, or throw on a playlist that makes you feel sexy to turn the experience into more of a full-body event.

Make It Hotter: Tease yourself a little. Run your hands over your body, play with your nipples, or drizzle a little lube across your stomach and watch it slowly trail downward. After all, you're the target audience here.

8

Sticky Fingers

Illustration of person with pink hair relaxing in swimsuit and heels.

Natalie Krim

How To Do It: Start by gently tapping your clitoris with minimal lube. Once you're feeling aroused, add a small amount of lube and slowly swirl a finger around your clitoris rather than moving straight into faster strokes.

Pros: If you're someone who usually races toward orgasm, this technique encourages you to slow down and savor the buildup.

Cons: Delayed gratification isn't everyone's thing. If patience isn't your strong suit, you may find yourself tempted to skip ahead.

Switch It Up: Alternate between tapping, circling, and brief pauses to keep your body guessing.

Make It Hotter: Resist the urge to speed up, even when things start feeling really good. The extended teasing can lead to a more intense, wave-like orgasm when you finally let yourself get there.

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The Bath Bomb

Abstract drawing of a nude figure with a large bow and colorful shapes.

Natalie Krim

How To Do It: Position yourself beneath a stream of running water from a bathtub faucet or shower and experiment with different angles, temperatures, and levels of pressure until you find what feels best.

Pros: Water provides a completely different sensation than fingers alone, making this an easy way to switch up your usual routine.

Cons: Finding the perfect angle can take a little trial and error. Plus, not every bathroom setup is equally cooperative.

Switch It Up: Move between the bathtub and shower, or experiment with different water pressures to see what your body responds to best.

Make It Hotter: Take your time exploring. Sometimes a small adjustment in position or pressure can completely change the experience.

10

The Convertible

Illustration of a relaxed person with long green hair holding a large pillow.

Natalie Krim

How To Do It: Straddle a pillow, apply a generous amount of silicone-based lube to your hand, and experiment with rubbing, circling, grinding, and humping motions to see what feels best.

Pros: Think of this as a masturbation tasting menu. The combination of rubbing, grinding, and pressure can help you figure out exactly what your body likes best.

Cons: Fair warning: things can get a little messy.

Switch It Up: Focus on one sensation at a time. Try only grinding, only rubbing, or only humping before combining them all together.

Make It Hotter: Pay attention to what you're enjoying most. Is it the pressure? The movement? The friction? The more you learn about what gets you off, the easier it'll be to communicate those preferences to a partner later.