Emily Ratajkowski has never shied away from the truth—but in a new essay for The Cut, she’s getting really candid about her dating life as a single mom. In it, she discusses her dating experience following her short-lived marriage to Sebastian Bear-McClard, from the “Vegan Graffiti Artist with impeccable posture,” to the “Chef who thought he might have chlamydia,” to the “Spanish Gen-Zer who couldn’t stop sending me nudes,” to the “heavily self-medicated Son of a Billionaire with questionable politics”…plus the “several Italians” and DJs along the way…including one DJ who told Em about “the time his mother and sister had caught him watching incest porn.” (Yes, really.)

So! It seems to me that there’s no better time to take a walk through EmRata’s relationship history—including her latest romance with boyfriend Romain Gavras.

Andrew was Emily’s first public boyfriend, and they dated for about a year before splitting sometime in February 2014—at least based on the Daily Mail reporting that Emily was telling people she was "single" at the Super Bowl. Meanwhile, Andrew was asked about the split and said, "Sorry, I don’t want to talk about it."

EmRata started dating musician Jeff Magid in 2014, and they allegedly split in January 2018 "due to work commitments," per The Sun. A source also said, "They used to be inseparable, although she tried to play down things in public. Jeff is an incredibly successful music producer and is working around the country."

Emily started dating Sebastian shortly after her split from Jeff, and they got married just two months later and went on to have a son. Emily filed for divorce in September 2022 after four years of marriage and told Harper’s Bazaar she was feeling "all of the emotions," noting, "I can tell you that I have never been single before. I feel anger, sadness. I feel excitement. I feel joy. I feel levity. Every day is different. The only good thing I know is that I'm feeling all those things, which is nice because it makes me believe that I'll be okay."

Emily and Brad were briefly linked in September, but it was casual. A source told People they’d "had a few dates" together, and that "he was introduced to Emily by a friend in the art world. There is an attraction, but nothing serious going on. She is obviously gorgeous and very into art as well. They have a lot to talk about and always have a great time when they hang out. They stay in touch when they don’t see each other."

EmRata and DJ Orazio Rispo were photographed kissing in October, and People reported they were "seen having dinner in N.Y.C. and seemed to be enjoying each other's company."

Pete and Emily were linked in November 2022, and the following month a source told People things were getting "more serious" for them and they're "really enjoying their time together." Alas, they split later that month.

Emily was spotted kissing artist Jack Greer at the end of December, but as far as we know, it was just a casual date night!

Emily and Eric dated for a couple months in early 2023, but split ahead of Valentine's Day, before the comedian posted a photo of himself naked with her in a reflection. A source told E! News that she "broke up with Eric days before he posted that photo," adding, "she had nothing to do with the posting."

Meanwhile, Emily shared this on TikTok:

Oh, and fans are pretty convinced that the “Elder Millennial” who was “obsessed with dental hygiene, psychedelics, and dirty talk” that EmRata refers to in her essay for The Cut is Eric.

Emily and Harry were spotted kissing in Tokyo in March, and Emily opened up about the viral photos during an interview with Vogue Spain, saying, "It’s very bizarre to have certain experiences and then have the whole world know about them and comment on them. I’m just a person who’s gone from a three-year relationship to a four-year relationship. This is the first time in a long time that I’ve been in a dating stage. The interest in that particular area is very strange. Not that I’m surprised, but it’s a tiny slice of my life. Most of my life is focused on my son and my work."

Emily and Shaboozey were briefly linked in summer 2024 and rumors persisted through the fall, though nothing was confirmed!

Emily and Romain Gavras (he’s Dua Lipa’s ex!) started dating in November 2025 (at least that’s when rumors hit) and they went Instagram official in February 2026. Cuuuute.

Time will tell whether these two are in it for the long haul.