The first Summer House cast member just popped up on Watch What Happens Live following West Wilson and Amanda Batula’s secret hookup going public, and we learned a LOT.

Summer House star Mia Calabrese joined Andy Cohen last night and gave everyone an update on how Ciara Miller is doing. “Ciara is how anyone would be if their best friend started dating their ex,” she said. “But I will say, Ciara is one of my best friends; she’s like a sister to me. She will always thrive, and I will always be there to support her and she’s going to be amazing.”

Mia also said she places more blame on Amanda than West, explaining, “I blame Amanda more; she’s a woman. I think men, you know, eh, they don’t always think straight. Women, it’s like come on, you know better.” She then confirmed that Amanda and West had reached out to her (West to “apologize for lying to me”), but she doesn’t “know how to respond yet.”

As for how Mia found out about West and Amanda, she said Ciara’s “intuition was telling her something and I refused to believe it, and then certain things started to click, but I’m telling you I refused for a while. I was like, this is impossible, they would never do that.” Meanwhile, Mia said she was less than impressed with Amanda’s statement announcing her return to social media, noting, “I thought it was interesting that her normalcy was just going out and hitting the bars with West.”

But the real shocker? Mia thinks West and Amanda could have been secretly hooking up over the summer, saying, “Looking back, I would say yes” when Andy asked her.

A lot to process here. Truly, the Summer House reunion cannot come soon enough!