/**
 * @author pp
 *
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public class Girl implements Startable{
    Kissable kissable ;
    public Girl(Kissable kissable){
        this.kissable = kissable;
    }
   
    public void start(){
        kissable.kiss();
    }
   
    public void stop(){}
}

Main.java
package com.pp;

    public static void main(String[] args) {
        MutablePicoContainer pico = new DefaultPicoContainer();
        pico.registerComponentImplementation(Boy.class);
        pico.registerComponentImplementation(Girl.class);
        pico.start();
        Girl girl = (Girl)pico.getComponentInstance(Girl.class);
        //girl.kissone();
        pico.stop();
        pico.dispose();
    }    
       
}

如果不用pico来管理，则Main函数看起来是这样的  
   public static void main(String[] args){
        Kissable kissable = new Boy();
        Girl girl = new Girl(kissable);
        girl.start();
    }
也就是说你必须自己来维护Boy对象，

如果在Spring则看起来是这样的
<beans>
     <bean id=“boy“ class=“com.pp.Boy“/>
     <bean id=“girl“ class=“com.pp.Girl“>
             <properties name=“kissable“><ref bean=“boy“/></properties>
     </bean>
</beans>