We consider random vectors $X$ that satisfy the equation in law $X=AX+B$, where $A$ is a given random diagonal matrix and $B$ a given random vector, both independent of $X$. It is well known by the works of Kesten and Goldie that the marginals of $X$ may exhibit heavy tails, with possibly different tail indices. In recent works (Damek 2025, Mentemeier and Wintenberger 2022) it was observed that asymptotic independence may occur despite strong dependencies in the entries of $A$: The probability that both marginals are simultaneously large decays faster than the marginal probability of an extreme event; the tail measure is concentrated on the axis. In this work, we analyse the hidden regular variation properties of $X$, that is, we find the proper scaling for which one observes simultaneous extremes.