This paper concerns the Vertex reinforced jump process (VRJP), the Edge reinforced random walk (ERRW) and their link with a random Schrödinger operator. On infinite graphs, we define a 1-dependent random potential $β$ extending that defined in [20] on finite graphs, and consider its associated random Schrödinger operator $H_β$. We construct a random function $ψ$ as a limit of martingales, such that $ψ=0$ when the VRJP is recurrent, and $ψ$ is a positive generalized eigenfunction of the random Schrödinger operator with eigenvalue $0$, when the VRJP is transient. Then we prove a representation of the VRJP on infinite graphs as a mixture of Markov jump processes involving the function $ψ$, the Green function of the random Schrödinger operator and an independent Gamma random variable. On ${\mathbb Z}^d$, we deduce from this representation a zero-one law for recurrence or transience of the VRJP and the ERRW, and a functional central limit theorem for the VRJP and the ERRW at weak reinforcement in dimension $d\ge 3$, using estimates of [10,8]. Finally, we deduce recurrence of the ERRW in dimension $ d=2$ for any initial constant weights (using the estimates of Merkl and Rolles, [15,17]), thus giving a full answer to the old question of Diaconis. We also raise some questions on the links between recurrence/transience of the VRJP and localization/delocalization of the random Schrödinger operator $H_β$.