This paper presents a novel meta learning framework for feature selection (FS) based on fuzzy similarity. The proposed method aims to recommend the best FS method from four candidate FS methods for any given dataset. This is achieved by firstly constructing a large training data repository using data synthesis. Six meta features that represent the characteristics of the training dataset are then extracted. The best FS method for each of the training datasets is used as the meta label. Both the meta features and the corresponding meta labels are subsequently used to train a classification model using a fuzzy similarity measure based framework. Finally the trained model is used to recommend the most suitable FS method for a given unseen dataset. This proposed method was evaluated based on eight public datasets of real-world applications. It successfully recommended the best method for five datasets and the second best method for one dataset, which outperformed any of the four individual FS methods. Besides, the proposed method is computationally efficient for algorithm selection, leading to negligible additional time for the feature selection process. Thus, the paper contributes a novel method for effectively recommending which feature selection method to use for any new given dataset.