Heterogeneous unmanned aerial vehicle (UAV) swarms consist of dozens to hundreds of drones with different roles and varying hardware and software requirements collaborating towards a shared mission. While traditional approaches for synchronized software updates assume swarms to be unstructured and homogeneous, the heterogeneous nature of modern swarms and the emerging need of drones to update their deep learning (perception) models with new objectives or data as a mission unfolds, has made efficient software update methods crucial for swarms to adapt to dynamic environments. To address these challenges, we introduce the SwarmUpdate framework for software updates in heterogeneous UAV swarms, composed of two key components: SwarmSync and SwarmModelPatch. SwarmSync is a hierarchical software update synchronization strategy to distribute a software update to the right subset of drones within a swarm, while SwarmModelPatch is a deep learning model patching method that reduces the size of a (deep learning model) update by only allowing some layers of the model to be updated (freezing the other layers). In this paper, we systematically evaluate the performance of SwarmSync through large-scale simulations in the ARGoS swarm simulator, comparing SwarmSync to auction-based (SOUL) and gossip-based rebroadcasting (Gossip) baselines, and SwarmModelPatch to a non-incremental model patching strategy.