Ensuring safe and effective collaboration between humans and autonomous legged robots is a fundamental challenge in shared autonomy, particularly for teleoperated systems navigating cluttered environments. Conventional shared-control approaches often rely on fixed blending strategies that fail to capture the dynamics of legged locomotion and may compromise safety. This paper presents a teleoperator-aware, safety-critical, adaptive nonlinear model predictive control (ANMPC) framework for shared autonomy of quadrupedal robots in obstacle-avoidance tasks. The framework employs a fixed arbitration weight between human and robot actions but enhances this scheme by modeling the human input with a noisily rational Boltzmann model, whose parameters are adapted online using a projected gradient descent (PGD) law from observed joystick commands. Safety is enforced through control barrier function (CBF) constraints integrated into a computationally efficient NMPC, ensuring forward invariance of safe sets despite uncertainty in human behavior. The control architecture is hierarchical: a high-level CBF-based ANMPC (10 Hz) generates blended human-robot velocity references, a mid-level dynamics-aware NMPC (60 Hz) enforces reduced-order single rigid body (SRB) dynamics to track these references, and a low-level nonlinear whole-body controller (500 Hz) imposes the full-order dynamics via quadratic programming to track the mid-level trajectories. Extensive numerical and hardware experiments, together with a user study, on a Unitree Go2 quadrupedal robot validate the framework, demonstrating real-time obstacle avoidance, online learning of human intent parameters, and safe teleoperator collaboration.