Surface electromyography (sEMG) provides a non-invasive interface for detecting hand-movement intention and controlling wearable assistive devices. However, reliable EMG-driven hand assistance remains challenging because EMG signals are affected by noise, motion artifacts, electrode placement, muscle fatigue, and inter-subject variability. At the same time, many hand exoskeletons remain mechanically restrictive or bulky, limiting comfort and natural hand motion. This work presents SoftPINCH, an EMG-driven soft wearable exoskeleton for thumb-index finger flexion and pinch grasp assistance. The system combines a tendon-driven soft exoskeleton, fingertip magnetic contact sensing, and neural EMG decoding for intention-based assistance. Surface EMG was recorded from forearm muscles during index and thumb movements, and three subject-independent decoding architectures were evaluated: LSTM, CNN+LSTM, and CNN+LSTM with attention. The CNN+LSTM and CNN+LSTM-attention models both achieved 99.4% LOSO test accuracy, outperforming the standalone LSTM, which reached 97.8%. However, the attention mechanism did not provide a significant improvement over CNN+LSTM, indicating that CNN-based feature extraction was sufficient for robust EMG representation. The CNN+LSTM model was therefore selected for real-time deployment due to its high accuracy and lower architectural complexity. Functional evaluation showed that active exoskeleton assistance reduced muscular effort during isolated finger flexion and object grasping. During weighted grasping, assistance reduced muscular effort across all tested loads, with a 92.6% reduction at the highest load. These results demonstrate the potential of SoftPINCH for intuitive, low-effort pinch assistance using real-time EMG-driven soft robotic control.