Quadruped robots are designed to achieve agile and robust locomotion by drawing inspiration from legged animals. However, most existing control methods for quadruped robots lack a key capacity observed in animals: the ability to exhibit diverse compliance behaviors while ensuring stability when experiencing external forces. In particular, achieving adjustable compliance while maintaining robust safety under force disturbances remains a significant challenge. In this work, we propose a safety aware compliant locomotion framework that integrates adjustable disturbance compliance with robust failure prevention. We first train a force compliant policy with adjustable compliance levels using a teacher student reinforcement learning framework, allowing deployment without explicit force sensing. To handle disturbances beyond the limits of compliant control, we develop a safety oriented policy for rapid recovery and stabilization. Finally, we introduce a learned safety critic that monitors the robot's safety in real time and coordinates between compliant locomotion and recovery behaviors. Together, this framework enables quadruped robots to achieve smooth force compliance and robust safety under a wide range of external force disturbances.