Differentiable sparse linear algebra is foundational for scientific machine learning, yet PyTorch lacks a unified library for it: torch.sparse provides only low-level kernels and a non-differentiable, CPU-only spsolve, and torch.linalg is dense-only. We present torch-sla, an open-source library that fills this gap. It exposes a single autograd-aware API for direct, iterative, nonlinear, and eigenvalue solvers across five interchangeable backends -- SciPy and Eigen on CPU, cuDSS, CuPy, and a PyTorch-native iterative solver on GPU -- with automatic dispatch by device and problem size. The library further supports batched solves over shared or distinct sparsity patterns and distributed multi-GPU execution via domain decomposition with halo exchange. These capabilities are made scalable by an O(1)-graph adjoint differentiation framework and an autograd-compatible distributed halo-exchange layer. The library is available at https://www.torchsla.com/.