For a finite poset $\mathcal{P}$, its height $h(\mathcal{P})$ is the number of cover relations in its longest chain. When $\mathcal{P}$ is a lattice $\mathcal{L}$, we label its elements $x$ with $h(x_\downarrow) = h([\hat{0},x])$ and its cover relations $x \lessdot y$ with $h(y_\downarrow) - h(x_\downarrow)$. When a lattice $\mathcal{L}'$ extends $\mathcal{L}$, $h(x_\downarrow)_\mathcal{L} \leq h(x_\downarrow)_{\mathcal{L}'}$. We study lattices $\mathcal{L}$ and $\mathcal{L}'$ such that $h(x_\downarrow)_\mathcal{L} = h(x_\downarrow)_{\mathcal{L}'}$. Cover relations labeled $1$ in $\mathcal{L}$ induce a poset that we call the (long) skeletal poset $\mathrm{SK}(\mathcal{L})$. Its Hasse diagram is the largest spanning subgraph that the Hasse diagrams of $\mathcal{L}$ and $\mathcal{L}'$ have in common. An example of lattices $\mathcal{L}$ and $\mathcal{L}'$ is the alt-Tamari lattices introduced by Chenevière, where every alt-Tamari lattice $\mathrm{alt}\text{-}\mathrm{Tam}_n$ extends the Tamari lattice $\mathrm{Tam}_n$/refines the Dyck lattice $\mathrm{Dyck}_n$ such that $h(x_\downarrow)_{\mathrm{Tam}_n} = h(x_\downarrow)_{\mathrm{alt}\text{-}\mathrm{Tam}_n}$. We study $\mathrm{SK}(\mathrm{Tam}_n)$ with another poset we introduce. We enumerate intervals in these posets. For a well-chosen distributive lattice, we introduce its altitude lattices, which generalize the alt-Tamari lattices $\mathrm{alt}\text{-}\mathrm{Tam}_n$. Altitude lattices within a family have the same number of linear intervals. They are related to each other via extensions, refinements, and embeddings of some skeletal posets. For a poset $\mathcal{P}$ with $\hat{0}$, we define its Kneser graphs $KG(k) := (V(k),E)$, where $V(k) := \{x: h(x_\downarrow) = k, 1 \leq k \leq h(\mathcal{P})\}$ and $E := \{(x,y): x_\downarrow \cap y_\downarrow =\hat{0}\}$. We give some observations about them in a reconstruction setting.