Deploying heterogeneous multi-agent robot fleets for collaborative perception requires robust data exchange and scalable software architectures. However, standard ROS 2 implementations often suffer from network saturation, namespace collisions, and severe computational overhead when distributing dense sensor streams across devices. To address these bottlenecks, we present SFG-ROS, a resource-aware multi-agent software framework designed for dynamic fleet deployments. SFG-ROS addresses these challenges through three primary contributions. First, schema-driven traffic routing isolates high-frequency intra-agent traffic from the global network using a programmatic fully qualified name schema and targeted Fast DDS routing. Second, an on-demand centralized decoding pipeline automatically offloads high-bandwidth sensor data decompression, eliminating redundant processing across local consumer nodes. Finally, a hardware-agnostic container pipeline dynamically adapts to heterogeneous accelerators, seamlessly bridging development environments with zero-touch, field-ready execution. We evaluate the framework using a fleet of wheeled and legged robots equipped with LiDAR and stereo depth cameras. Experimental results show SFG-ROS bounds network traffic to $\mathcal{O}(1)$ and, by replacing redundant decompression with lightweight IPC, reduces the per-subscriber CPU scaling penalty by 72.3\% versus standard ROS 2, all while maintaining low latency. Finally, we publish SFG-ROS under a permissive license, available via \href{https://iis-esslingen.github.io/sfg-ros}{iis-esslingen.github.io/sfg-ros}.