A seminal work of [Ahn-Guha-McGregor, PODS'12] showed that one can compute a cut sparsifier of an unweighted undirected graph by taking a near-linear number of linear measurements on the graph. Subsequent works also studied computing other graph sparsifiers using linear sketching, and obtained near-linear upper bounds for spectral sparsifiers [Kapralov-Lee-Musco-Musco-Sidford, FOCS'14] and first non-trivial upper bounds for spanners [Filtser-Kapralov-Nouri, SODA'21]. All these linear sketching algorithms, however, only work on unweighted graphs. In this paper, we initiate the study of weighted graph sparsification by linear sketching by investigating a natural class of linear sketches that we call incidence sketches, in which each measurement is a linear combination of the weights of edges incident on a single vertex. Our results are: 1. Weighted cut sparsification: We give an algorithm that computes a $(1 + ε)$-cut sparsifier using $\tilde{O}(n ε^{-3})$ linear measurements, which is nearly optimal. 2. Weighted spectral sparsification: We give an algorithm that computes a $(1 + ε)$-spectral sparsifier using $\tilde{O}(n^{6/5} ε^{-4})$ linear measurements. Complementing our algorithm, we then prove a superlinear lower bound of $Ω(n^{21/20-o(1)})$ measurements for computing some $O(1)$-spectral sparsifier using incidence sketches. 3. Weighted spanner computation: We focus on graphs whose largest/smallest edge weights differ by an $O(1)$ factor, and prove that, for incidence sketches, the upper bounds obtained by~[Filtser-Kapralov-Nouri, SODA'21] are optimal up to an $n^{o(1)}$ factor.