Modern deep models are often pretrained on large-scale data with missing labels using composite objectives, where the relative weights of multiple loss terms act as hyperparameters. Tuning these weights with random search or Bayesian optimization is computationally expensive, as it requires many independent training runs. To address this, we propose a gradient-based bilevel method that learns pretraining loss weights online by aligning the composite pretraining gradient with a downstream objective. By exploiting the structure of the loss, the method avoids the multiple backward passes typically required by truncated backpropagation through the full model, reducing the overhead of hyperparameter tuning to approximately 30% above a single training run. We evaluate the approach on event-sequence modeling and self-supervised computer vision, where it matches or improves upon carefully tuned baselines while substantially reducing the cost of hyperparameter tuning compared to random or Bayesian search.