Continual Model Merging (CMM) enables rapid customization of foundation models by sequentially incorporating task-adapted models without repeated retraining. However, existing merging rules usually update the deployed model through fixed algebraic or projection-based operations, providing limited control over how much previously accumulated knowledge should be retained relative to the incoming task model. This limitation leads to unstable retention and performance degradation in long task streams, and becomes more pronounced when tasks have heterogeneous utilities. We propose ODE-driven Merging (ODE-M), a controllable framework that formulates each continual merge as a trajectory in parameter space rather than a one-step endpoint update. Motivated by mode connectivity, ODE-M constructs a barrier-aware trajectory using a rectified time-dependent velocity field, where lightweight first-order feedback from a small calibration set suppresses loss-increasing motion while preserving progress toward the incoming model. The next merged model is then obtained by selecting an operating point along this trajectory through a utility-aware time schedule, providing an explicit mechanism for balancing retained historical knowledge and incoming task expertise. Extensive experiments on standard CMM benchmarks show that ODE-M consistently improves over strong continual merging baselines across CLIP ViT backbones, stream lengths, and heterogeneous task-utility settings.