Large language models (LLMs) often memorize private information during training, raising serious privacy concerns. While machine unlearning has emerged as a promising solution, its true effectiveness against privacy attacks remains unclear. To address this, we propose PrivUn, a new evaluation framework that systematically assesses unlearning robustness through three-tier attack scenarios: direct retrieval, in-context learning recovery, and fine-tuning restoration; combined with quantitative analysis using forgetting scores, association metrics, and forgetting depth assessment. Our study exposes significant weaknesses in current unlearning methods, revealing two key findings: 1) unlearning exhibits gradient-driven ripple effects: unlike traditional forgetting which follows semantic relations (e.g., knowledge graphs), privacy unlearning propagates across latent gradient-based associations; and 2) most methods suffer from shallow forgetting, failing to remove private information distributed across multiple deep model layers. To validate these insights, we explore two strategies: association-aware core-set selection that leverages gradient similarity, and multi-layer deep intervention through representational constraints. These strategies represent a paradigm shift from shallow forgetting to deep forgetting.