While LLMs excel at single-turn generation, they struggle with long-horizon, multi-turn interactions. Offline reinforcement learning (RL) offers a scalable approach, yet its performance hinges on the availability and quality of multi-turn trajectory data. A common remedy is to augment training with synthetic trajectories generated by LLMs or simulators, but synthetic data is highly heterogeneous in quality, and naively treating all trajectories as equally informative can degrade performance. We propose BOOST, a bilevel optimization framework where the inner level trains the LLM on reweighted data and the outer level trains a lightweight reweighting head on held-out real validation tasks, assigning continuous trajectory-level weights without requiring an external judge. To ground this approach, we derive a PAC-Bayesian bound revealing a three-way trade-off: synthetic data increases diversity but risks task-shift, while concentrating weight on high-quality trajectories improves empirical performance at the cost of effective sample size. Empirically, our method consistently outperforms multiple baselines. Analysis reveals it upweights synthetic trajectories that align with the real data distribution and exhibit higher qualitative merit.