Experience-driven self-evolving agents aim to overcome the static nature of large language models by distilling reusable experience from past interactions, thus enabling adaptation to novel tasks at deployment time. This process places substantial demands on the foundation model's capacities for abstraction, generalization, and in-context learning. However, most existing studies focus primarily on system-level design choices, such as how experience is represented and managed, neglecting the inherent capabilities of the underlying model. While some recent works have started to optimize the experience utilization stage via reinforcement learning, they still fail to treat self-evolution as a unified process to be jointly optimized. To this end, we propose Evolving-RL, an efficient algorithmic framework that jointly improves the experience extraction and utilization capabilities required for self-evolution. Specifically, we center the learning process on experience extraction and evaluation, using the two supervisory signals derived from evaluation to optimize the extractor and solver separately and thus enable their coordinated co-evolution. Experiments on ALFWorld and Mind2Web show that Evolving-RL effectively enhances LLMs' ability to extract and reuse experience, leading to strong performance gains on out-of-distribution tasks (up to 98.7% relative improvement over the GRPO baseline on ALFWorld unseen tasks and 35.8% on Mind2Web), and these gains are fully unlocked only through the coordinated co-evolution of experience extraction and utilization. Furthermore, Evolving-RL inherently functions as an experience-augmented RL algorithm. By internalizing reusable experience patterns directly into model parameters, it achieves remarkable performance gains over standard baselines on both seen and unseen tasks, even in the absence of test-time experience accumulation.