Interactive recommender systems (IRS) are increasingly optimized with Reinforcement Learning (RL) to capture the sequential nature of user-system dynamics. However, existing fairness-aware methods often suffer from a fundamental oversight: they assume the observed user state is a faithful representation of true preferences. In reality, implicit feedback is contaminated by popularity-driven noise and exposure bias, creating a distorted state that misleads the RL agent. We argue that the persistent conflict between accuracy and fairness is not merely a reward-shaping issue, but a state estimation failure. In this work, we propose \textbf{DSRM-HRL}, a framework that reformulates fairness-aware recommendation as a latent state purification problem followed by decoupled hierarchical decision-making. We introduce a Denoising State Representation Module (DSRM) based on diffusion models to recover the low-entropy latent preference manifold from high-entropy, noisy interaction histories. Built upon this purified state, a Hierarchical Reinforcement Learning (HRL) agent is employed to decouple conflicting objectives: a high-level policy regulates long-term fairness trajectories, while a low-level policy optimizes short-term engagement under these dynamic constraints. Extensive experiments on high-fidelity simulators (KuaiRec, KuaiRand) demonstrate that DSRM-HRL effectively breaks the "rich-get-richer" feedback loop, achieving a superior Pareto frontier between recommendation utility and exposure equity.