In Vision-Language Models (VLMs), processing a massive number of visual tokens incurs prohibitive computational overhead. While recent training-aware pruning methods attempt to selectively discard redundant tokens, they largely rely on continuous-gradient relaxations. However, visual token pruning is inherently a discrete, non-convex combinatorial problem; consequently, these continuous approximations frequently trap the optimization in sub-optimal local minima, especially under aggressive compression budgets. To overcome this fundamental bottleneck, we propose GRIP-VLM, a Group-Relative Importance Pruning framework driven by Reinforcement Learning. Rather than relying on smooth-gradient assumptions, GRIP-VLM formulates pruning as a Markov Decision Process, employing a Group Relative Policy Optimization (GRPO) paradigm anchored by supervised warm-up to directly explore the discrete selection space. Integrated with a budget-aware scorer, our lightweight agent dynamically evaluates per-token importance and adapts to arbitrary compression ratios without retraining. Extensive experiments across diverse multimodal benchmarks demonstrate that GRIP-VLM consistently outperforms heuristic and supervised-learning baselines, achieving a superior Pareto frontier and delivering up to a 15\% inference speedup at equal accuracy.