Frontier LLMs increasingly decide what a query attends to with a sparse-attention indexer that picks a few KV-cache blocks per query: attention's unit is now a small, reusable chunk. Agentic workloads hammer it: many sub-agents query one large codebase, reusing the same blocks. When that corpus outgrows one GPU it is partitioned across instances, so a query and the blocks it selects often sit on different GPUs: answering it means attention across instances. The reflex of prior cross-instance KV systems is to move the cache: pull the selected blocks to the requester. Multi-head Latent Attention inverts the arithmetic, compressing each token's key and value into one narrow vector, so a routed query row is only ~1 KB, smaller than the chunk it attends; routing the query is then often cheaper than moving the cache. Which primitive wins, over which fabric and request shape, is uncharted, least of all on device-initiated RDMA that makes per-request cross-node transfers cheap. We characterize cross-instance MLA attention on a real multi-node H100 cluster, distilling two reusable artifacts: a topology-aware cost model (probe / transfer / compute / return / merge) and a closed-form route/fetch/local predicate, whose constants we measure on real IBGDA, where the model tracks batched round-trips to within ~7%. At decode it routes the query, trading the cost of moving the cache (a ~3 ms re-adaptation splice for a contiguous chunk, or a scattered gather under selection) for a tens-of-microsecond round trip, and picks the fabric by probe latency, not peak bandwidth. We instantiate the cost model and predicate for MLA, but neither is MLA-specific: they apply wherever compression or sparse selection shrinks attention to small chunks (DeepSeek-V3.2, V4, and GLM-5.1 today). Extending them to a new architecture requires measuring just two coefficients: the routed payload and fetch's move-the-cache cost.