Agent-memory frameworks -- mem0, Letta/MemGPT, Cognee, Zep/Graphiti, MemoryOS, MemTensor -- each ship their own SDK, storage layout, and operational vocabulary. There is no shared wire format: every integration is bespoke, every migration rebuilds memory from scratch, and no framework ships a governance surface that lets a human review writes before they enter long-term storage. We present memorywire, a JSON-Schema 2020-12 wire format for five memory operations (remember, recall, forget, merge, expire) over four memory types (semantic, episodic, procedural, emotional), with a MemoryStore interface, a fan-out router, and an optional HITL governance channel. We describe an open-source reference implementation with five backend adapters (sqlite-vec, mem0, Letta, Cognee, pgvector); a microbenchmark on a 100-fact / 50-query labelled corpus (42 with non-empty gold ids + 8 no-match probes) achieving recall@5 = 1.000 on the 42 gold-id queries with ingest p50 = 37.8 ms and recall p50 = 40.6 ms; an adversarial-fusion experiment showing Reciprocal Rank Fusion holds recall@5 = 1.000 across a 1-of-N rank-0 injection sweep (K in {0, 5, ..., 50}) where max fusion collapses to 0.500 with 80% leak at K >= 5; and a 16-scenario cross-adapter conformance suite passing 68 of 80 cells with zero failures. The contribution is not a new algorithm; it is a packaging of established components (RRF, FSMs, STM/LTM consolidation, diff-and-approve workflows) into a venue-neutral protocol with an empirically validated reference, positioned to compose with the Model Context Protocol rather than compete with it.