Multi-Objective Alignment aims to align Large Language Models (LLMs) with diverse and often conflicting human values by optimizing multiple objectives simultaneously. Existing methods predominantly rely on static preference weight construction strategies. However, rigidly aligning to fixed targets discards valuable intermediate information, as training responses inherently embody valid preference trade-offs even when deviating from the target. To address this limitation, we propose Meal, i.e., MEta ALigner, a bi-level meta-learning framework enabling bidirectional optimization between preferences and policy responses, generating instructive dynamic preferences for steadier training. Specifically, we introduce a preference-weight-net as a meta-learner to generate adaptive preference weights based on input prompts and update the preference weights as learnable parameters, while the LLM policy acts as a base-learner optimizing response generation conditioned on these preferences with rejection sampling strategy. Extensive empirical results demonstrate that our method achieves superior performance on several multi-objective benchmarks, validating the effectiveness of the dynamic bidirectional preference-policy optimization framework.