Two independent edges in ordered graphs can be nested, crossing or separated. These relations define six types of subgraphs, depending on which relations are forbidden. We refine a remark by Erdős and Rado that every 2-coloring of the edges of a complete graph contains a monochromatic spanning tree. We show that forbidding one relation we always have a monochromatic (non-nested, non-crossing, non-separated) spanning tree in a 2-edge-colored ordered complete graph. On the other hand, if two relations are forbidden, then it is possible that we have monochromatic (nested, separated, crossing) subtrees of size only half the number of vertices. The existence of a monochromatic non-nested spanning tree in 2-colorings of ordered complete graphs verifies a more general conjecture for twisted drawings. Our second subject is to refine the Ramsey number of matchings for ordered complete graphs. Cockayne and Lorimer proved that for given positive integers t, n, m=(t-1)(n-1)+2n is the smallest integer with the following property: every t-coloring of the edges of a complete graph Km contains a monochromatic matching with n edges. We conjecture a strengthening: t-colored ordered complete graphs on m vertices contain monochromatic non-nested and also non-separated matchings with n edges. We prove this conjecture for some special cases. (i) Every t-colored ordered complete graph on t+3 vertices contains a monochromatic non-nested matching of size two. (ii) Every 2-colored ordered complete graph on 3n-1 vertices contains a monochromatic non-separated matching of size n. For nested, separated, and crossing matchings the situation is different. The smallest m ensuring a monochromatic matching of size n in every t-coloring is 2(t(n-1))+1) in the first two cases and one less in the third case.