Multilingual speech-text models rely on cross-modal language alignment to transfer knowledge between speech and text, but it remains unclear whether this reflects shared computation for the same language or modality-specific processing. We introduce a generation-step-aware framework for evaluating cross-modal computation that (i) identifies language-selective neurons for each modality at different decoding steps, (ii) decomposes them into language-representation and language-control roles, and (iii) enables cross-modal comparison via overlap measures and causal intervention, including cross-modal steering of output language. Applying our framework to SeamlessM4T v2, we find that cross-modal language alignment is strongest at the first decoding step, where language-representation neurons are shared across modalities, but weakens as generation proceeds, indicating a shift toward modality-specific autoregressive processing. In contrast, language-control neurons identified from speech transfer causally to text generation, revealing partially shared circuitry for output-language control that strengthens at later decoding steps. These results show that cross-modal processing is both time- and function-dependent, providing a more nuanced view of multilingual computation in speech-text models.