queen-mihai : mystery-incorporated-whore : pocket-deer-belly : pocket-deer-belly : the older i get the more i think it’s not just unnecessary but also maybe bad for you to split apart the sexual aspects of your personality and keep them sequestered to a nsfw account. i kinda hate that that’s normal i’m autistic i simply do not have the mental fortitude to attempt to discern a very innately ambiguous thing (sexuality) and strictly categorize it into the label “appropriate for normies” and “not appropriate for normies” (also an ambiguous category). at a certain point my brain goes “well, it’s just a penis, that’s not weird” or “this fat person is fully clothed but their clothes are tight so maybe it’s too sexy for main?” and if that happens enough you start short circuiting in the immortal words of the lovely @estrogenesis-vaporeongelion , in what is probably the single greatest ask response ive ever seen: “unfortunately, here online as in real life, youll have to decide if you can handle me exactly as i am, and if not ill see you when i see you💕” I separate my sexual/horny stuff into a side blog NOT to protect some magical normie reading my blog, but to protect myself and my ability to have a voice. I have already had a picture of my KNEE flagged as mature content despite that knee being fully clothed. If I showed a picture of me in beachware? The type of stuff you literally see in public? The type of stuff I’ve WORN in public with zero issues? I get the strangest feeling Tumblr staff would be standing outside my house with torches and pitchforks screaming for me to take down the “explicit pornography” or they’ll burn my fucking house to the ground. I did post a picture of myself in beachware once The picture was taken by my friend We were AT THE BEACH We were in public There were families around and no one gave a shit. Tumblr decided it was pornography and needed a mature tag The only reason I didn’t make a big stink about it is because it happened on my side blog. Like, make no mistake, I agree wholeheartedly with OP It’s absolutely fucking stupid that in order for me to even have HOPE of keeping this blog, I’ve gotta pretend to be Susie fucking homemaker instead of an accomplished muscular feminine author who fucks just as passionately as she writes books and the only thing she’s known for more than being smart and fucking HOT is just how goddamn fiercely she fights for human rights I’m fucking PROUD of my body. I love being strong as fuck. I wanna show off like nobody’s business But until I know Tumblr isn’t gonna piss their panties at the sight of my bare fucking forearm I take precautions to protect myself and my blog.