queen-mihai : mystery-incorporated-whore : pocket-deer-belly : pocket-deer-belly : the older i get the more i think it’s not just unnecessary but also maybe bad for you to split apart the sexual aspects of your personality and keep them sequestered to a nsfw account. i kinda hate that that’s normal i’m autistic i simply do not have the mental fortitude to attempt to discern a very innately ambiguous thing (sexuality) and strictly categorize it into the label “appropriate for normies” and “not appropriate for normies” (also an ambiguous category). at a certain point my brain goes “well, it’s just a penis, that’s not weird” or “this fat person is fully clothed but their clothes are tight so maybe it’s too sexy for main?” and if that happens enough you start short circuiting in the immortal words of the lovely @estrogenesis-vaporeongelion , in what is probably the single greatest ask response ive ever seen: “unfortunately, here online as in real life, youll have to decide if you can handle me exactly as i am, and if not ill see you when i see you💕” I separate my sexual/horny stuff into a side blog NOT to protect some magical normie reading my blog, but to protect myself and my ability to have a voice. I have already had a picture of my KNEE flagged as mature content despite that knee being fully clothed. If I showed a picture of me in beachware? The type of stuff you literally see in public? The type of stuff I’ve WORN in public with zero issues? I get the strangest feeling Tumblr staff would be standing outside my house with torches and pitchforks screaming for me to take down the “explicit pornography” or they’ll burn my fucking house to the ground. I did post a picture of myself in beachware once The picture was taken by my friend We were AT THE BEACH We were in public There were families around and no one gave a shit. Tumblr decided it was pornography and needed a mature tag The only reason I didn’t make a big stink about it is because it happened on my side blog. It’s just my little slice of proof that this fucking site is run by fuckwits who allow ACTUAL pornography on like ten thousand blogs, but let a transgender woman lie down clothed on the beach and that’s just too much