I've said this here before but:

My daughters were being bullied in the schools here in Molde.

One of them was being bullied for being quiet. One for being "annoying"

Literally one for being introverted and one for being extroverted.

The school did fucking nothing until I complained. What did the school do? They started looking into ME.

Two FUCKING YEARS I had to fight the school system here, along with dozens of meetings with Norway's equivalent of child protective services, with them constantly painting me every color of guilty as if I was somehow the one responsible for my kids being upset about being bullied.

I also didn't have my green card at the time and my kids being taken away would have meant I wouldn't have a reason to stay in the country, meaning I'd end up on a plane back to the states where my transgender left leaning ass would have probably flagged some bullshit alarm and been detained and probably fucking KILLED.

I won that motherfucking fight.

The teachers had to take better training

They had to get serious about bullying because I know the goddamn code. If it was happening to my kids it was happening to others, and they couldn't BEAR the thought that maybe some little white kid might be getting hurt the same way my kids were.

And like I said, I mentioned it here for the fucking world to see.

My daughters told me there were other kids whose parents had just GIVEN UP on trying to raise them, and the school did fucking nothing, meanwhile I try to PROTECT my kids and get fucking investigated for my troubles.

My oldest daughter got hit in the face with a rock. The school didn't want to do anything. They tried to blame her. They said maybe the rock slipped out of his hand by accident (why was it THERE in the first place?) And basically REFUSED to talk to his parents, even while they were fucking threatening me. Yes I said fucking threatening. You can color it behind the language of "concern" all you fucking want. "We will take your kids away, let you get deported, arrested, and probably killed" is a fucking threat on my LIFE and I heard it loud and clear.

And. I. Still. Fucking. Won.

The shit with the bullying has lightened up a little. More people are starting, extremely slowly, to be more normal about the fact that I exist

They still won't fucking talk to me. They still look my ex dead in the eye and talk like I'm not in the fucking room during 90% of parent teacher conferences. They still talk like she's the default parent and I'm just kinda hanging around like a fucking wart they can't get rid of. They still assign disgusting anti-trans unsafe-for-children jowlings work to my kids trying to even more subtly align my own kids against me. But I see that too.

No

My kids aren't here to just take abuse from you.

And neither am I.

And I will continue to show up and tell on you to your bosses and to the government and to the WORLD if you don't do your goddamn job and TEACH and GUIDE and PROTECT my kids.

Also Molde, June is coming. That's Pride month. There is a transgender parent, WHO IS AN AUTHOR, AT your school.

If yall don't tell the kids about transgender people and just how NORMAL we are, you're gonna hear from me again. I'm right here, if anything you should be letting me SPEAK for the kids so I can inspire them into being decent people.

You have a chance here. What are you gonna do with it? Use it? Help the kids? Or treat my little black kids like they're some sort of punching bags that should just stop complaining?