We characterize the communication complexity of the following distributed estimation problem. Alice and Bob observe infinitely many iid copies of $ρ$-correlated unit-variance (Gaussian or $\pm1$ binary) random variables, with unknown $ρ\in[-1,1]$. By interactively exchanging $k$ bits, Bob wants to produce an estimate $\hatρ$ of $ρ$. We show that the best possible performance (optimized over interaction protocol $Π$ and estimator $\hat ρ$) satisfies $\inf_{Π\hatρ}\sup_ρ\mathbb{E} [|ρ-\hatρ|^2] = \tfrac{1}{k} (\frac{1}{2 \ln 2} + o(1))$. Curiously, the number of samples in our achievability scheme is exponential in $k$; by contrast, a naive scheme exchanging $k$ samples achieves the same $Ω(1/k)$ rate but with a suboptimal prefactor. Our protocol achieving optimal performance is one-way (non-interactive). We also prove the $Ω(1/k)$ bound even when $ρ$ is restricted to any small open sub-interval of $[-1,1]$ (i.e. a local minimax lower bound). Our proof techniques rely on symmetric strong data-processing inequalities and various tensorization techniques from information-theoretic interactive common-randomness extraction. Our results also imply an $Ω(n)$ lower bound on the information complexity of the Gap-Hamming problem, for which we show a direct information-theoretic proof.