This paper proposes a cell-free massive multiple-input multiple-output (CF-mMIMO) architecture with joint list-based detection with soft interference cancelation (soft-IC) and access points (APs) selection. In particular, we derive a new closed-form expression for the minimum mean-square error receive filter while taking the uplink transmit powers and APs selection into account. This is achieved by optimizing the receive combining vector by minimizing the mean square error between the detected symbol estimate and transmitted symbol, after canceling the multi-user interference (MUI). By using low-density parity check (LDPC) codes, an iterative detection and decoding (IDD) scheme based on a message passing is devised. In order to perform joint detection at the central processing unit (CPU), the access points locally estimate the channel and send their received sample data to the CPU via the front haul links. In order to enhance the system's bit error rate performance, the detected symbols are iteratively exchanged between the joint detector and the LDPC decoder in log likelihood ratio form. Furthermore, we draw insights into the derived detector as the number of IDD iterations increase. Finally, the proposed list detector is compared with existing detection techniques.