Decentralized learning is an efficient emerging paradigm for boosting the computing capability of multiple bounded computing agents. In the big data era, performing inference within the distributed and federated learning (DL and FL) frameworks, the central server needs to process a large amount of data while relying on various agents to perform multiple distributed training tasks. Considering the decentralized computing topology, privacy has become a first-class concern. Moreover, assuming limited information processing capability for the agents calls for a sophisticated \textit{privacy-preserving decentralization} that ensures efficient computation. Towards this end, we study the \textit{privacy-aware server to multi-agent assignment} problem subject to information processing constraints associated with each agent, while maintaining the privacy and assuring learning informative messages received by agents about a global terminal through the distributed private federated learning (DPFL) approach. To find a decentralized scheme for a two-agent system, we formulate an optimization problem that balances privacy and accuracy, taking into account the quality of compression constraints associated with each agent. We propose an iterative converging algorithm by alternating over self-consistent equations. We also numerically evaluate the proposed solution to show the privacy-prediction trade-off and demonstrate the efficacy of the novel approach in ensuring privacy in DL and FL.