This paper derives the distribution of the maximum end-to-end (e2e) signal to noise ratio (SNR) in an opportunistic relay selection based cooperative relaying (CR) network having large number of non-identical relay links between the source and destination node. The source node is assumed to be simultaneous wireless information and power transfer (SWIPT) enabled and the relays are capable of both time splitting (TS) and power splitting (PS) based energy harvesting (EH). Contrary to the majority of literature in communication, which uses extreme value theory (EVT) to derive the statistics of extremes of sequences of independent and identically distributed (i.i.d.) random variables (RVs), we demonstrate how tools from EVT can be used to derive the asymptotic statistics of sequences of independent and non-identically distributed (i.n.i.d.) normalised SNR RVs and hence characterise the distribution of the maximum e2e SNR RV. Using these results we derive the expressions for ergodic and outage capacities at the destination node. Finally, we present the utility of the asymptotic results for deciding the optimum TS and PS factors of the hybrid EH relays that (i) minimise outage probability and (ii) maximise ergodic capacity at the destination. Furthermore, we demonstrate how stochastic ordering results can be utilised for simplifying these optimisation problems.