Generative recommendation (GR) has emerged as a promising paradigm that predicts target items by autoregressively generating their semantic identifiers (SID). Most GR methods follow a quantization-representation-generation pipeline, first assigning each item a SID, then constructing input representations from SID-token embeddings, and finally predicting the target SID through autoregressive generation. Existing item-level representation constructions mainly take two forms: directly merging SID-token embeddings into a compact vector, or enriching item-level representations with external inputs through additional networks. However, these item-level constructors still expose two practical challenges: direct merging may amplify the information loss caused by quantization and ID collision while obscuring SID code relations, whereas external-input-based methods can strengthen item semantics but cannot reliably preserve the SID-structured evidence required for token-level generation. These limitations make representation construction an underexplored bottleneck, leading to two severe problems, \ie{} the Identity-Structure Preservation Conflict and Input-Output Granularity Mismatch. To this end, we propose ComeIR, a Conditional Memory enhanced Item Representation framework that reconstructs SID-token embeddings into item-aware inputs and restores the token granularity during SID decoding. Specifically, MM-guided token scoring adaptively estimates the contribution of each code within the SID, dual-level Engram memory captures intra-item code composition and inter-item transition patterns, and a memory-restoring prediction head reuses the memories during SID decoding. Extensive experiments demonstrate the effectiveness and flexibility of ComeIR, and further reveal scalable gains from enlarging conditional memory.