We propose an alternating optimization framework for maximizing energy efficiency (EE) in reconfigurable intelligent surface (RIS) assisted distributed MIMO (D-MIMO) systems under both coherent and non-coherent reception modes. The framework jointly optimizes access point (AP) power allocation and RIS phase configurations to improve EE under per-AP power and signal-to-interference-plus-noise ratio (SINR) constraints. Using majorization-minimization for power allocation together with per-element RIS adaptation, the framework achieves tractable optimization of this non-convex problem. Simulation results for indoor deployments with realistic power-consumption models show that the proposed scheme outperforms equal-power and random-scatterer baselines, with clear EE gains. We evaluate the performance of both reception modes and quantify the impact of RIS phase-shift optimization, RIS controller architectures (centralized vs. per-RIS control), and RIS size, providing design insights for practical RIS-assisted D-MIMO deployments in future 6G networks.