We investigate the limiting behavior of discrete determinantal point processes (DPPs) towards continuous DPPs when the size of the set to sample from goes to infinity. We propose a non-asymptotic characterization of this limit in terms of the concentration of statistics associated to these processes, which we refer to as "weak coherency". This allows to translate statistical guarantees from the limiting process to the original, discrete one. Our main result describes sufficient conditions for weak coherency to hold. In particular, our study encompasses settings where both the kernel of the continuous process and its underlying space are inaccessible, or when the discrete marginal kernel is a noisy version of its continuous counterpart. We illustrate our theory on several examples. We prove that a discrete multivariate orthogonal polynomial ensemble can be used to produce coresets strictly smaller than independent sampling for the same error. We propose a process achieving repulsive sampling on an unknown manifold from a set of points sampled from an unknown density. Finally, we show that continuous DPPs can be obtained as limits on random graphs with Bernoulli edges, even when only observing the graph structure. We obtain interesting byproduct results along the way.