In this paper, we consider the problem of estimating the covariance kernel and its eigenvalues and eigenfunctions from sparse, irregularly observed, noise corrupted and (possibly) correlated functional data. We present a method based on pre-smoothing of individual sample curves through an appropriate kernel. We show that the naive empirical covariance of the pre-smoothed sample curves gives highly biased estimator of the covariance kernel along its diagonal. We attend to this problem by estimating the diagonal and off-diagonal parts of the covariance kernel separately. We then present a practical and efficient method for choosing the bandwidth for the kernel by using an approximation to the leave-one-curve-out cross validation score. We prove that under standard regularity conditions on the covariance kernel and assuming i.i.d. samples, the risk of our estimator, under $L^2$ loss, achieves the optimal nonparametric rate when the number of measurements per curve is bounded. We also show that even when the sample curves are correlated in such a way that the noiseless data has a separable covariance structure, the proposed method is still consistent and we quantify the role of this correlation in the risk of the estimator.