We study the mutual regularity properties of Palm measures of point processes, and establish that a key determining factor for these properties is the rigidity-tolerance behaviour of the point process in question (for those processes that exhibit such behaviour). Thereby, we extend the results of Osada-Shirai, Bufetov and Olshanski to new ensembles, particularly those that are devoid of any determinantal structure. These include the zeroes of the standard planar Gaussian analytic function and several others.