Let $M$ be a Fraïssé structure (a countably infinite ultrahomogeneous structure). We call an embedding $f : A \to M$ extensive if each automorphism of its image extends to an automorphism of $M$, where the extension map respects composition, and we say that $M$ has extensible $ω$-age if each substructure admits an extensive embedding into $M$. We investigate the relationship between the following two properties: the presence of a stationary weak independence relation (SWIR) on $M$, and extensibility of the $ω$-age of $M$. We show that linearly ordered Fraïssé structures with a SWIR have extensible $ω$-age, but also we give examples of Fraïssé structures where only one of the two properties holds. Finally, we consider whether a wide range of examples of Fraïssé structures have extensible $ω$-age or a finite SWIR expansion, including all countably infinite ultrahomogeneous oriented graphs (with one exception).