Let $H(n, q^2)$ be a non-degenerate Hermitian variety of $PG(n,q^2)$, $n \geq 2$. Let $NU(n+1,q^2)$ be the graph whose vertices are the points of $PG(n,q^2) \setminus H(n,q^2)$ and two vertices $u,~v$ are adjacent if the line joining $u$ and $v$ is tangent to $H(n, q^2 )$. Then $NU(n + 1, q^2)$ is a strongly regular graph. In this paper we show that the automorphism group of the graph $NU(3,q^2)$ is isomorphic either to $PΓU(3,q)$, the automorphism group of the projective unitary group $PGU(3,q)$, or to $S_{3} \wr S_{4}$, according as $q \neq 2$, or $q=2$.