We show that if a simplicial complex is a near-cone of sufficiently high depth, then the only maximum families of small pairwise intersecting faces are those with a common intersection. Thus, near-cones of sufficiently high depth satisfy the strict Erdős-Ko-Rado property conjectured by Holroyd and Talbot and by Borg. One consequence is a strict Erdős-Ko-Rado theorem for independence complexes of chordal graphs with an isolated vertex. Under stronger shiftedness conditions, we prove a sharper stability theorem of Hilton-Milner type, as well as two cross-intersecting theorems.