In the early 80's, Alain Quilliot presented an approach of ordered sets and graphs in terms of metric spaces, where instead of positive real numbers, the values of the distance are elements of an ordered monoid equipped with an involution. This point of view was further developed in a series of papers by Jawhari, Misane, Pouzet, Rosenberg and Kabil. Some results are currently published by Rosenberg, Kabil and Pouzet, Bandelt, Pouzet and Saïdane, Khamsi and Pouzet. Special aspects were developed by the authors of the present paper. A survey on generalized metric spaces is in print. In this paper, we review briefly the salient aspects of the theory of generalized metric spaces, then we illustrate the properties of the preservation, by operations, of sets of relations, notably binary relations, and particularly equivalence relations.