In this paper, we investigate the convergence properties of a wide class of Adam-family methods for minimizing quadratically regularized nonsmooth nonconvex optimization problems, especially in the context of training nonsmooth neural networks with weight decay. Motivated by the AdamW method, we propose a novel framework for Adam-family methods with decoupled weight decay. Within our framework, the estimators for the first-order and second-order moments of stochastic subgradients are updated independently of the weight decay term. Under mild assumptions and with non-diminishing stepsizes for updating the primary optimization variables, we establish the convergence properties of our proposed framework. In addition, we show that our proposed framework encompasses a wide variety of well-known Adam-family methods, hence offering convergence guarantees for these methods in the training of nonsmooth neural networks. More importantly, we show that our proposed framework asymptotically approximates the SGD method, thereby providing an explanation for the empirical observation that decoupled weight decay enhances generalization performance for Adam-family methods. As a practical application of our proposed framework, we propose a novel Adam-family method named Adam with Decoupled Weight Decay (AdamD), and establish its convergence properties under mild conditions. Numerical experiments demonstrate that AdamD outperforms Adam and is comparable to AdamW, in the aspects of both generalization performance and efficiency.