Models of opinion dynamics aim to capture how individuals' opinions change when they interact with each other. One well-known model of opinion dynamics is the Deffuant--Weisbuch (DW) model, which is a type of bounded-confidence model (BCM). In the DW model, agents have pairwise interactions, and they are receptive to other agents' opinions when their opinions are sufficiently close to each other. In this paper, we extend the DW model by studying it on networks with heterogeneous and adaptive edge weights between pairs of agents. These edge weights govern the interaction probabilities between the agents and thereby encode the idea that people are more likely to communicate with individuals with whom they have previously compromised or had other positive interactions. We prove theoretical guarantees of our adaptive edge-weighted DW model's convergence properties, the long-time dynamics of its edge weights, and the model's associated ``effective graph", which is a time-dependent subgraph that includes edges only between agents that are receptive to each other's opinions. We support our theoretical results with numerical simulations of our adaptive edge-weighted DW model on a variety of networks and find that including adaptive edge weights yields different qualitative dynamics for different types of networks. In particular, for small confidence bounds, we observe that incorporating adaptive edge weights decreases the convergence time for dense networks but increases the convergence time for sparse networks.