The goal of Speech Emotion Recognition (SER) is to enable computers to recognize the emotion category of a given utterance in the same way that humans do. The accuracy of SER is strongly dependent on the validity of the utterance-level representation obtained by the model. Nevertheless, the ``dark knowledge" carried by non-target classes is always ignored by previous studies. In this paper, we propose a hierarchical network, called DKDFMH, which employs decoupled knowledge distillation in a deep convolutional neural network with a fused multi-head attention mechanism. Our approach applies logit distillation to obtain higher-level semantic features from different scales of attention sets and delve into the knowledge carried by non-target classes, thus guiding the model to focus more on the differences between sentiment features. To validate the effectiveness of our model, we conducted experiments on the Interactive Emotional Dyadic Motion Capture (IEMOCAP) dataset. We achieved competitive performance, with 79.1% weighted accuracy (WA) and 77.1% unweighted accuracy (UA). To the best of our knowledge, this is the first time since 2015 that logit distillation has been returned to state-of-the-art status.