Speaker diarization is well studied for constrained audios but little explored for challenging in-the-wild videos, which have more speakers, shorter utterances, and inconsistent on-screen speakers. We address this gap by proposing an audio-visual diarization model which combines audio-only and visual-centric sub-systems via late fusion. For audio, we show that an attractor-based end-to-end system (EEND-EDA) performs remarkably well when trained with our proposed recipe of a simulated proxy dataset, and propose an improved version, EEND-EDA++, that uses attention in decoding and a speaker recognition loss during training to better handle the larger number of speakers. The visual-centric sub-system leverages facial attributes and lip-audio synchrony for identity and speech activity estimation of on-screen speakers. Both sub-systems surpass the state of the art (SOTA) by a large margin, with the fused audio-visual system achieving a new SOTA on the AVA-AVD benchmark.