The increasing availability of machines relying on non-GPU architectures, such as ARM A64FX in high-performance computing, provides a set of interesting challenges to application developers. In addition to requiring code portability across different parallelization schemes, programs targeting these architectures have to be highly adaptable in terms of compute kernel sizes to accommodate different execution characteristics for various heterogeneous workloads. In this paper, we demonstrate an approach to code and performance portability that is based entirely on established standards in the industry. In addition to applying Kokkos as an abstraction over the execution of compute kernels on different heterogeneous execution environments, we show that the use of standard C++ constructs as exposed by the HPX runtime system enables superb portability in terms of code and performance based on the real-world Octo-Tiger astrophysics application. We report our experience with porting Octo-Tiger to the ARM A64FX architecture provided by Stony Brook's Ookami and Riken's Supercomputer Fugaku and compare the resulting performance with that achieved on well established GPU-oriented HPC machines such as ORNL's Summit, NERSC's Perlmutter and CSCS's Piz Daint systems. Octo-Tiger scaled well on Supercomputer Fugaku without any major code changes due to the abstraction levels provided by HPX and Kokkos. Adding vectorization support for ARM's SVE to Octo-Tiger was trivial thanks to using standard C++