
Edward “Teddy” Kennedy III and Rose Esselstyn can never agree on exactly how they met, but they both remember the location. It was her first week of sophomore year after transferring in, and his first of junior year at Wesleyan University—and they were both in the Usdan dining hall. “I remember seeing her and waiting for her to put her dishes away so I could ‘run into her’ at the dish conveyor belt station,” Teddy says of their meeting in 2018. “She remembers it the other way around: She got up and followed me, and I said, ‘Are you following me?’ to which she replied, ‘Would it be okay if I were?’ After this, we had our first coffee date, and I knew in my heart that she was the one.”
Her version might be slightly better supported by evidence, as Rose had seen Teddy speak on a panel for first-year and transfer students like herself, where students from different backgrounds discussed their lives and lessons they’d learned. He had spoken about sailing and how wind alone is only one factor. “I lamented the loss of my grandfather and talked about turning a sailing career marked by last- and second-to-last-place finishes into a resounding success thanks to his direction,” Teddy recalls. “That summer, I won a championship and was grateful my grandfather was there to see it. This message echoed with Rose, who also shared a sense of family values, among those perseverance and a reverence for those who came before us.”
After dating for nearly seven years, the two got engaged on May 31, 2025, at Rose’s family’s historic farm in Claverack, New York. “I arranged for her family to join us and for mine to come up clandestinely so as not to alert her to their presence until the time was right,” Teddy says. “It was a rainy day, and I had to push back my planned ‘walk’ until the clouds broke. I also organized a surprise private dinner at the Klocke estate later that night to celebrate with our families.”
The couple’s wedding took place just over a year later on June 13, 2026, at 4 p.m. at the same location. The ceremony took place atop the Tank House Hill, overlooking the Catskills and the Hudson Valley, at a farm that has remained in Rose’s family for nearly 350 years across 11 generations.
At one point, the couple considered marrying in Hyannis Port. “But my love of the countryside—and the sense that the venue should be the bride’s choice—led us to the farm,” Teddy explains. “I have no doubt we’ll spend a lot of time in Hyannis Port though.”
Once the venue had been decided, Rose and Teddy jumped into planning. At first, it was harder than they both anticipated. “Rose has tremendous project management skills, which I wish I shared,” Teddy jokes. “I contributed by taking on ceremony design, seating charts, music, and lighting.”
In the months leading up to the wedding, Rose’s parents, Ted Esselstyn and Anne Bingham, devoted countless hours to planting, painting, and beautifying the farm. Ted also sketched the intertwining tulips that became the wedding emblem, appearing everywhere from the invitation suite to Teddy’s wedding band. “The easiest part of the process was that Rose and I had shared visions for the day from the beginning,” Teddy says. “The harder part was executing on that vision. Neither Rose nor I like superfluous details. We like things classic and simple.” The two worked with Amanda Serroukas for event planning and Main Course for catering.
Both Rose and Teddy worked with stylist Michael Smith on their wedding weekend wardrobes, and the bride reimagined her mother’s wedding dress for the rehearsal dinner. A welcome party followed later that evening at the Maker Cafe in Hudson, for which the bride changed into a dress by The Row paired with Jimmy Choo shoes.
For the wedding ceremony, Rose chose a dress by Oscar De La Renta, who dressed Jackie Kennedy in several custom looks throughout her life. The bride wore family heirlooms, including pearls from Teddy’s grandmother and sapphire jewelry gifted by Teddy and his mother.
Teddy wanted something classic and chose a morning coat. “It’s a traditional style worn by my great-grandfather, grandfather, and many uncles and great uncles,” he says. “It was an easy choice, especially for a countryside wedding.” He accessorized with a black-leather banded 1956 Omega Seamaster. “The Seamaster is understated and belonged to my grandfather,” Teddy notes. “My tie clip is an Amethyst set in platinum and gold, which belonged to my grandfather and is our shared birthstone.”
He finished his look off with mismatched “EMK” and “RFK” Cartier cufflinks. “Before my uncle Bobby Kennedy was lowered into his grave at Arlington, my grandfather took one of his own cufflinks and replaced it with one of his brothers, each now sharing a piece of the other. I remain in awe of my grandfather’s own perseverance, still speaking of visions of hope for the future, despite experiencing so much personal tragedy.”
The ceremony was a multi-denominational service with Teddy’s godfather, Akiva Goldsman, as the officiant. “We were lucky the weather gods acted in our favor,” Teddy jokes. “The Etsy witches Rose hired to cast a spell worked!” The groom walked up the winding path to Tank House hill along with the rest of the guests. “As the music changed, the moment we had been waiting for was upon us,” Teddy remembers. “Rose looked breathtaking. I come from a long line of men who cry, and I cried as I looked at the person with whom I will spend forever.”
“When I imagined my wedding day, it was always walking down the aisle that came to mind first,” Rose recalls. Standing behind Tank House, hidden from view, Rose and her parents waited for their cue. “We watched as my maternal and paternal grandparents began their procession down the aisle,” the bride says. “My parents both cried. There had been a time when it wasn’t guaranteed that all four of my grandparents would be there, let alone be well enough to walk on that day. Yet there they were—a living reminder of love, resilience, and family. It is a moment I will carry with me forever.”
Then it was their turn. “Every step felt exactly as it should,” Rose says. “I kept my eyes on Teddy the entire time. In that moment, with the people I love most surrounding me and the man I was about to marry waiting at the end of the aisle, everything felt perfectly, beautifully right.” The bride walked down the aisle arm in arm with both of her parents, and in a funny moment, accidentally kissed Teddy upon arriving at the altar, which was a simple glass podium with nothing but rolling hills of winter wheat behind the wedding party.
The couple wrote their own vows, and after they kissed a second time, they recessed out to “This Will Be an Everlasting Love,” played first on cello and violin, and then in a New Orleans-style second line, complete with brass instruments leading the newlyweds down the hill to the cocktail hour.
Cocktail hour took place on the homestead lawn between the walnut grove and Lilli Pond. “Rose and I had a private moment at the homestead as our guests followed the brass band to the cocktail hour,” Teddy recalls. They sat in the sunroom overlooking the cocktail hour. “As we sat, we each turned over our rings,” he remembers. “We had each worked with our jewelry designer separately to engrave messages in each other’s rings. Our jaws hit the floor as we realized we had each engraved the exact same message in the other’s rings.” Then, they attempted to bustle Rose’s dress. At one point, Teddy was on all fours trying to decode the delicate color coding the seamstress had concocted.
After they rejoined the guests, the party got started. The groom was adamant that the Guinness keg be tapped and ready for his groomsmen to enjoy. “There wasn’t a single glass of Guinness left by the end of the night,” he says.
Rose’s family also has a tradition of singing “Consider Yourself,” from the musical Oliver, to any new members that marry into the family—so 50-plus members of Rose’s family serenaded Teddy with the showtune. “The Kennedys had to act quickly!” Rose jokes. “We laughed as we watched Teddy’s cousins race around trying to coordinate ‘Hey Massachusetts,’ Teddy’s grandfather’s campaign song. Teddy and his dad finally decided on a classic: a duet of ‘Some Enchanted Evening’ a capella. There wasn’t a dry eye.”
After the wedding reception on Homestead lawn, guests walked to the barn courtyard for the after-party, which was dubbed “Club X Teddy.” “That was the name for my backyard party venue over the years,” Teddy admits. “The barn courtyard is almost a perfect square made up of the old horse barn, dairy barn, heifer shed, and wagon shed. The DJ was stationed in the heifer shed. We danced under the stars for hours. It was truly incredible.”
“[Now looking back and reflecting on it all, I just want to express our deepest gratitude to our families and friends for their unwavering love, support, and sacrifices on our behalf,” Rose says. “Then, now, and always.”

“Here we are moments after our rehearsal dinner, taking photos outside as we're caught by friends arriving at our welcome party.” —Teddy

“Rose poses with her mother, quite stunningly I’d add, wearing her mother’s wedding dress.” —Teddy

“Private moment in The Maker Cafe as we await our guests. Teddy was quick to get a negroni.” —Rose

“Me in The Row posing in The Maker courtyard after a quick change. My type B really came out in this wedding planning process. I completely forgot to steam my dress and was promptly whisked away by my brother Gus Esselstyn, his best friend, Cyrus Veyssi, and my stylist Michael Smith for a quick steam shower and hair and makeup touch-up. This moment up in their room at The Maker is one of my favorite memories from this night.” —Rose

“The Homestead at the Esselstyn Farm the morning of the wedding.” —Rose

“My two young cousins lounge ahead of the big day on the infamous sleeping porch—there are 11 twin beds, no AC, and always fans whirring away. My family has gathered at the Farm each summer and the sleeping porch was always one of the most special parts. We’d stay up too late as kids spying on the grownups below through the air vents under the beds.” —Rose

“Me in the sunroom. A quiet moment before my bridal brigade arrived and the dress change began.” —Rose

“My grandfather’s campaign tie clip, an Amethyst lapel pin—our shared birthstone, a set of my great-grandfather’s cufflinks, and mismatched EMK-RFK cufflinks, the opposites of which lay with Bobby in Arlington Cemetery.” —Teddy

“The finishing touches!” —Rose

“My dad Ted helping me with my cufflinks.” —Teddy

“My dad and I standing ready for the day.” —Teddy

“In my grandfather’s office—Caldwell "Essy" Blakeman Esselstyn Jr.—looking out at guests beginning to gather.” —Rose

“Teddy at The Maker waiting for his cue to head to the ceremony at the Esselstyn Farm.” —Rose

“My mom and me having a pinch me moment. The day is finally here!” —Rose

“Practicing my vows in the sunroom. I wrote these vows on paper from an old journal, and was having second thoughts that maybe the paper would be too flimsy. It all worked out, and I am so grateful to have them handwritten.” —Rose

“My something borrowed. Kiki, Teddy’s mother, presenting me with her mother’s diamond necklace for me to wear.” —Rose

“My maternal grandparents, Annie Bingham and David Bingham, walking over to the family homestead ahead of the ceremony.” —Rose

“This was the moment Teddy pulled up to the homestead from The Maker—where he stayed the night before. I was so sure he could see me peeking!” —Rose

“Our first look on the most romantic secret trail in between the Homestead and the Carriage House.” —Rose

“A favorite photo of ours from the first look moment.” —Rose

“This one speaks for itself.” —Teddy

“One of the final photos from our first look posing in front of Tank House Hill.” —Teddy

“Heading inside post-ceremony for a private moment pre-cocktail hour.” —Rose

“Ted Kennedy greeting me ahead of the ceremony.” —Rose

“My paternal grandfather, Caldwell—or ‘Ess’ as we call him—sitting on the far left. Me greeting my maternal grandparents, David and Annie Bingham, ahead of the ceremony.” —Rose

“One of my favorite photos of all time. Me holding my nephew, Lance Shannon who was also one of our ring bearers.” —Rose

“Patrick Kennedy and his two children, Marshall and Nell Kennedy, meeting the first Edward M. Kennedy great-grandchild, Wolf Abes—son of Grace Allen and Jared Abes. Wolf was also a ring bearer.” —Teddy

“Teddy being greeted by my maternal grandparents.” —Rose

“Flinn Esselstyn, my big sister and maid of honor and her son—ring bearer Lance Shannon.” —Rose

“Our two immediate families coming together. We’re so lucky that our families completely adore each other.” —Rose

“My four grandparents. From left to right: Ann Crile Esselstyn, Caldwell ‘Essy’ Esselstyn, David Bingham, Annie Bingham. My grandfather, Caldwell, grew up on the Esselstyn Farm.” —Rose

“Teddy posing with my immediate family and grandparents in the Walnut Grove next to the Homestead.” —Rose

“Our wedding party.” —Rose

“Teddy and his groomsmen. From left to right, Best Man William Riverius Humphrey IV, Jack Alberding, Conor Hely, Matthew Whalen, and August Sample.” —Rose

“Our guests beginning to make their way to the top of Tank House.” —Teddy

“Artist Jim Freeheart in action painting the farm’s key landmarks.” —Rose

“Teddy with cousins Sam Shriver and Christopher Schwarznegger.” —Rose

“Teddy’s aunts and uncles gather on top of Tank House Hill. From left to right, Kate Manning Kennedy, Max Kennedy, Taylor Gershman, Sheila Kennedy, Molly Kennedy, and Cris Goodhart.” —Rose

“My parents, Ted Kennedy Jr. and Kiki Kennedy, walk me down the aisle.” —Teddy

“Our very excited flower children begin their walk down the aisle. There were worries shared ahead of the ceremony by the kids that there weren't nearly enough petals!” —Rose

“My parents and I beginning our walk down the aisle to ‘Fields of Gold’ by Eva Cassidy.” —Rose

“One of the most surreal moments of all. Hand in hand with my parents as we walked down the aisle. My mom did all the ceremony flowers and spent weeks considering all the different possible combinations.” —Rose

“My eager grandmothers, Annie Bingham and Ann Crile Esselstyn, trying to get their eyes on my parents and me as we walked down the aisle. This photo will forever make me laugh.” —Rose

“A stunning view of our ceremony, looking over the rolling hills between the Catskills to the west and Berkshires to the east.” —Rose

“The two of us looking on as my uncle Zeb Esselstyn delivered a reading at the ceremony.” —Rose

“Another moment from the ceremony, looking on at one of our readers.” —Rose

“I accidentally kissed Teddy the moment I got to the altar. This photo captures the official ‘you may kiss the bride’ moment. Teddy's sister, Kiley (far left) and my siblings, Flinn and Gus (far right) smile on.” —Rose

“Walking down the aisle to ‘Everlasting Love.’ Such a special moment!” —Rose

“We did it! Moments after the ceremony before we rode our golf cart down to our private moment.” —Rose

“We had a brass band hiding in the wings to surprise our guests with a second line. This photo captures guests heading down Tank House Hill to cocktail hour, which took place on the lawn behind the Homestead.” —Rose

“Teddy and me moments after the ceremony about to head inside for our private moment. We raced to take this photo as our guests were on our tail heading to cocktail hour just behind us.” —Rose

“Our incredible florist, Ariella Chezar’s flowers. We wanted local/seasonal flowers. Here you’ll see Kousa Dogwood, peonies, roses, baby’s breath, narcissus, and white delphiniums.” —Rose

“A few guests gathered on the porch of the homestead looking out at the cocktail house.” —Rose

“Our escort wall, which was a true labor of love. I gave my dad, Ted Esselstyn, an image of a wall from Pinterest, which I planned on building—not at all sure how. A week later, I went home for a weekend and he had constructed this entire wall. I almost cried! It was the first tangible detail of our wedding. My mom, dad, brother, sister, and I had a very funny time trying every combination of fabric glue to try and make this fabric stick. Staples ended up being our best friend. We then spent another four hours individually tacking 300 hooks!” —Rose

“I insisted on these busts. Everyone doubted me!” —Rose

“My nephew and ring bearer, Lance Shannon, attempting to drink ice water out of a large glass cup.” —Rose

“The two of us making our grand entrance into the cocktail hour!” —Rose

“My favorite photo of all time. The crowd was chanting ‘kiss her!’ We had practiced this dip a million times and finally nailed it.” —Rose

"The Kennedy family photo. About a third of the wedding was suddenly missing when we took this photo. My grandmother Ann Crile Esselstyn snuck into one of the Kennedy family photos which made everyone laugh." —Rose

“The Bingham/Esselstyn family photo!” —Teddy

“Rose’s cousins and uncle gathering on the porch ahead of the family photo. From left to right: Jody Esselstyn, Jeff Aten, and Rip Esselstyn.” —Teddy

“The incredible light at cocktail hour.” —Rose

“A sneak peek into the reception tent.” —Rose

“Another view into our reception tent which was placed in the far back of the homestead lawn. ” —Rose

“My brother, Gus Esselstyn—founder of ByGeorge Studio—designed and orchestrated every single printed detail of this wedding—from brand design, to the save the date, formal invitation, menus, weekend program, and more.” —Rose

“A view from the reception tent to the cocktail hour.” —Teddy

“A quiet moment at the cocktail hour.” —Rose

“Being announced as husband and wife as we entered the reception tent!” —Teddy

“Our first dance to ‘Can I Call You Rose.’ We had every intention to carefully choreograph this dance. Suddenly it was Friday at 3 p.m., and we got a solid 20 minutes of practice in. This photo likely captures me forcefully whispering ‘just sway!’ into Teddy's ear. I was so sure he was going to try something complicated!" —Rose

“A moment right after our first dance where we had all our guests join us for a dance. Rose was thrilled when the first dance was over—she was so nervous!” —Teddy

“A precious moment. My maternal grandparents, David and Annie Bingham, found a quiet place towards the back of the tent to dance together.” —Rose

“Rose’s family—entire extended family on both sides—is plant-based, and so the wedding menu was 95% vegan. We did do a butlered fish option for anyone who wanted it. This captures an heirloom tomato salad with spun tofu ‘ricotta,’ basil gelee, and balsamic pearls.” —Teddy

“Me as Teddy and his dad Ted Kennedy Jr. serenaded me with ‘Some Enchanted Evening.’" —Rose

“Teddy and his dad performing ‘Some Enchanted Evening.’” —Rose

“The two of us smiling on as my parents gave their welcome speech.” —Teddy

“Our flower children dashing back to the porch for a pizza party dinner.” —Rose

“We were swept away by our photographers to make it to ‘blue hour’ on top of Tank House Hill.” —Rose

“The two of us sitting on a bench my dad built on the Tank House porch.” —Rose

“We couldn’t believe our luck with the lighting. It was truly magnificent.” —Rose

“One of the first images I saved on my Pinterest was a ‘tentrance’—the entrance to a reception tent. My mom dug up these ferns from our house in Connecticut and carefully watered them for a week ahead of the wedding. Teddy gathered these lanterns. Between the two of them my dream of a ‘tentrance’ came true.” —Rose

“Me looking at Teddy as we listen to the most touching speeches.” —Rose

“Teddy’s friends from Hyannis Port. We placed them as close as we could to the dance floor as we knew they'd be the best cheerleaders!” —Rose

“One of Teddy’s best friends Alex Dreyfus and his fiance Lydia Brainard laugh hard as my brother Gus delivers his man of honor speech.” —Rose

“Moments after my brother Gus Esselstyn delivered what we've been told may be the best wedding speech anyone has ever given. He quite literally received job offers, agent introductions, and requests to collaborate.” —Rose

“Me and my mom walking onto the dance floor for our mother son dance.” —Teddy

“Teddy daring to do the ultimate wedding lift!” —Rose

“Hardly anyone left the dance floor.” —Rose

“One of our favorite moments from the evening. I called Rose’s aunt Jane Esselstyn last August with a request that she make our wedding cake. Jane is a cookbook author, registered nurse, and leader in the plant-based space. She spent hours and hours developing this vegan cake recipe, and her daughter Crile Hart designed it. It was a labor of love. From her research, she knew a wedding cake historically was meant to mimic the shape of a bride's dress—tiered and white. This, of course, limited the flavor and ingredients she could use. So in Jane Esselstyn fashion, she ‘bewitched’ the cake and microdosed it with ingredients that meant something to each person in our lives.” —Teddy

“Another shot of our incredible cake.” —Rose

“Rose taking to the dance floor! As Rose wrote in her vows, she promises to never say no to a dance. She delivered on this promise!” —Teddy

“Our after-party setup!” —Teddy

“After the wedding reception on the Homestead lawn, guests walked to the Barn Courtyard for ‘Club X Teddy,’ the name for my backyard party venue over the years. The barn courtyard is almost a perfect square made up of the old horse barn, dairy barn, heifer shed, and wagon shed. The DJ was stationed in the heifer shed, and we danced under the stars for hours. It was truly incredible.” —Teddy

“Larry from Stortz lighting brought my vision to life. Lasers, strip lights, and a disco ball on top.” —Teddy

“Never. Stop. Dancing. My grandmother Ann Crile Esselstyn was the last person on the dance floor. She was truly the dancing queen of the night.” —Rose
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